Inner Strength

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If you can start the day without caffeine or pep pills,

If you can be cheerful, ignoring aches and pains,

If you can resist complaining and boring people with your troubles,

If you can eat the same food everyday and be grateful for it,

If you can understand when loved ones are too busy to give you time,

If you can overlook when people take things out on you when,
through no fault of yours, something goes wrong,

If you can take criticism and blame without resentment,

If you can face the worlds without lies and deceit,

If you can conquer tension without medical help,

If you can relax without liquor, if you can sleep without the aid of drugs,

If you can do of all these things,

Then you are probably the family dog.

Sick and Happy Takes on New Meaning

I am going to be the first ever to blog about the negative effects of happiness in CF.  The following is an excerpt from an article from Stanford Medicine, published yesterday (the emphasis is mine).  In brief, the article reports the discovery of an exaggerated white blood cell response to inflammatory signals leading to lung destruction in CF lungs:

So what are the live neutrophils doing in patients’ lungs? The new findings surprised Tirouvanziam’s team. After collecting fresh neutrophils from cystic fibrosis patients’ sputum and analyzing them with fluorescence-activated cell sorting, the team discovered that signals from the patients’ lung tissue were reprogramming live neutrophils with conflicting messages. The first set of signals switches on what Tirouvanziam calls “an ancient happiness pathway” — a chain of commands that tell the neutrophils that nutrients are plentiful, and that it’s a good time to translate the cell’s library of genes into new protein. The second pathway is a cellular alarm system associated with inflammation and stress.

“They’re receiving a lot of signals at same time, and we think the happiness signals are messing them up completely,” Tirouvanziam said.

His team now suspects the inappropriate activation of the “happiness signal” — the molecular target of rapamycin, or mTOR, cell signaling pathway — may trigger neutrophils to release large quantities of human neutrophil elastase, the enzyme that destroys the elastic fiber of lung tissue. In healthy individuals, neutrophils never release destructive human neutrophil elastase into nearby tissue.

So maybe Sick and Happy should now be called Sick because I’m Too Happy????

Y: YOU ARE NOT ALONE. THE KEY TO HAPPPINESS

A very interesting study was done in 2002, looking at what made college kids happy(1).  Now, I know what you are thinking.  All college kids are happy!  Why wouldn’t they be?  They have no responsibility.  They get to wake up when they want.  They are free from parental control for the first time in their lives.  And then, there are the fraternity parties…

Not so, apparently.  Using multiple assessments, 222 college kids were divided into groups that were “very happy,” “average,” and “very unhappy.”  Countless studies have of course been done on unhappy people with various psychopathologies, but this was the first to focus on very happy people.  The conclusions were fascinating.

Several variables were assessed, including things like social relationships, personality and psychopathology, the perception of wealth, number of objective positive and negative events they had experienced, grade point average, physical attractiveness (rated by coders by looking at pictures), use of tobacco and alcohol, time spent sleeping, watching television, exercising and participating in religious activities.  All of this data was collected over about 50 days by having the subjects do daily logs.

The researchers were looking for the key(s) to happiness…what variable(s), if any, would be either sufficient or necessary (or both) to put someone in the very happy group?  The term sufficient in this case would mean that all people who had that variable were “very happy.”  Necessary would apply to a variable if virtually every person in the very happy group possessed the variable.  Are you with me?

Now with that very simplified explanation of the study done, on with the results.  Sadly, NONE of the variables evaluated were “sufficient.”  There is no magic key to happiness…at least, not in this study.

However, a few variables were found to be necessary conditions for high happiness…the one that this article is concerned with is that “very happy people have rich and satisfying relationships and spend little time alone relative to average people.”  It also helps to not be neurotic or have much psychopathology (i.e. depression), and to be an extrovert.

Bummer.  So there is nothing magic to do or get that will, by itself, provide happiness.  But, trying to manipulate the variables that are necessary to be happy is a good way to improve your odds, right?  Of the four (lack of neurosis, minimal psychopathology, extroversion, and rich social relationships), the easiest one to work on is the last.

Happiness does not appear to occur without rich social relationships.

Hence, the  “Y” rule in NOTDEADYET.  You are not alone!

So, don’t be a recluse.  Reading blogs and commenting is fun and encouraged (hint), but is not sufficient to build rich personal relationships.  What is necessary is to connect with others…in person.  And this applies even more, I think, to people living with the stress and inconvenience of chronic illness.

When you don’t feel well, it is very easy to hole up and not be social. I get it.  You don’t look your best.  You don’t feel your best.  You don’t have energy to be social.  You don’t want other people to think they need to help you.  It’s just easier to curl up with your dogs and watch Keith Olbermann!

But therein lies the problem.  Hanging out alone keeps you mired in yourself.  It becomes easy to feel sorry for yourself, jealous of others, and just generally pissed off that you don’t feel great.  And there is no one there to tell you differently!  You get no other perspective.

The next question becomes, “How do I just start being social when I’ve never been before?”

It starts with calling someone.  At first, maybe it will just be family members.  Connecting more frequently with them is a great step in the right direction.  Over time, you might be emboldened enough to call a friend to set up a date for coffee or lunch.  Then, maybe you can make a goal to call a different friend once a week.  Then…you get it.  Small steps.  But necessary ones!

1) Diener, E., Seligman, M., (2002). Very Happy People. Psychological Research, 13(1), 81-84.